Addiction Survivors


Unread 12-09-2009, 01:42 PM   #1
ADMIN's Avatar
Posts: 88
Default Step 8

Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make
amends to them all.
ADMIN is offline   Reply With Quote
Unread 01-28-2010, 10:41 AM   #2
Senior Member
toms's Avatar
Posts: 880

The list wasn't hard for me, I kept my fourth step and modified it. The steps often seem to be fairly easy, except for one or two pesky words. For this one, "became willing", to make amends "to them all". "Became" implies that this is a process that has to be worked on, and "them all" means that I didn't to choose to omit certain troublesome amends. As with Step Four, I blurred this step into the next one.... it had to be pointed out that this step simply entails willingness....the actual amends occurs in a later step.
Tom S.
toms is offline   Reply With Quote
Unread 01-28-2010, 03:25 PM   #3
Senior Member
Posts: 2,617

like Tom mine was made up in my fifth step by my sponsor as I read aloud the fourth. I was told at 8 to rewrite it with any new names I may have come up with and not to cross out any names,

I then had to write the harm I caused "Physical $$, stole piece of mind etc. We then used 8 when it was time to go out and make amends, I was coached on the first few as to what may happen and how I was to respond etc.

theswan is offline   Reply With Quote

Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is Off
HTML code is Off

All times are GMT -4. The time now is 03:56 PM.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2020, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
© 2014 Addiction Survivors