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Unread 12-18-2016, 05:41 AM   #2
NancyB
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Hi soapdish, I'm so sorry to hear what happened to you. You did do the right thing by calling the police. So please do not feel guilty about that. You had to save yourself from harm.

In my opinion, there is no way you can let him back in to live with you. Get a restraining order from the police, pack his stuff up and ask him to leave. Give him a list of shelters he can go to along with a list of rehabs he can check into and maybe get a taxi to get him to the place of his choosing.He hasn't yet chose to get help or try to get better on his own and has never had consequences for his actions.

Can you tell your parents so you can have their support? Maybe you can see if there is an alanon meeting near you so YOU can have some support there in Italy.
http://al-anon.org/gso-italy

Most of all, you have to do whatever you need to do for your safety and protection.

Please let us know how you are doing.

Nancy
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