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Unread 12-23-2009, 07:58 PM   #19
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Hi 1418,

Glad you are testing the dating waters and trusting yourself more and more. It will serve you well, when the right person comes along.
I remember those days when you did not know what was what with your ex. In all honesty, we ( people with addictions) when we are in active addiction, become masters of the blame game, it's not me it's you game and more. It is a way of protecting our addiction, so that no one interferes with it. Sad but true. I am just sorry it wreaks such havoc with our loved ones. I still hold out hope that one day your ex will get the help he needs for everyone - esp him and your son. Until then hang in there, draw your boundaries.

You have survived it, and are doing great ! I am so glad you keep us posted because it is so refreshing and inspiring to know that you have a new life, the sky is the limit!

Yikes, 2 more days until the big Day, I hope you and your son have a wonderful, peaceful, holiday : ) Take care, Carly
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