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Unread 05-16-2017, 06:59 AM   #17
NancyB
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Hi LaLa81, that's so sad to hear that he lied to you about the frequency of his cocaine use. I don't really know what to say especially when he doesn't think he has a problem at all. What do you think his reaction would be if you told him that you don't want him around your kids if he's been using it? Or that YOU don't want to be around him when he's using it?

I know you're dependent upon him financially; but is there any way you can make up for what he contributes to your household that would also work for you and your kids? Are there any work from home opportunities you can do? Depending on your hours at work, can you babysit in your home or pet sit? Just trying to think of things that may work.

Nancy
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