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Unread 04-20-2017, 04:31 PM   #2
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Hi LaLa81, I'm sorry to hear what you're going through. But the sad truth is that he is right. You can't help him, not because he doesn't NEED help; but because he doesn't WANT help.

Do you live in the same house - sorry, I didn't want to assume anything. Has he gone this long without contacting you before?

Do you have family or friends that you can stay with until you get on your feet? He doesn't seem to be doing you much good and I'm not sure he's doing your kids any good if he's constantly under the influence of cocaine and/or alcohol all the time.

You need to think of you and your kids and do the best thing for your family.

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